(Closed) Do I have a right to be upset?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1963 posts
Buzzing bee

1. Breathe, it sounds like it hasn’t been decided yet so no need worrying about what hasn’t happened yet.

2. You don’t have to stay at that hotel do you?  Find a cheaper option.

3. If all else fails, just don’t participate

Post # 4
221 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

One question.  Is the hotel you price-checked the only hotel in the area?  Theres bound to be cheaper alternatives.  Just because the venue is in that hotel, doesn’t mean you have to stay there. 

Post # 6
6394 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

If she asks you to be in it, I would just tell her no and explain how strapped you are for money with your own wedding. Everyone knows that being a Bridesmaid or Best Man is expensive, and it’s better for you to explain your situation up front than try to do it and have to back out later.

I agree with price-checking hotels around the area, there’s always a Super 8 :). She won’t care whether you’re in the same hotel as other guests on her wedding night I’m sure.

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