(Closed) Do I have a right to be upset?…long

posted 8 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
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937 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

You have every right to be upset! I’m extremely angry after reading that!

How dare she play you like that! that is so horrible!!!

Post # 4
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4123 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Um, yes, I would be pissed too.  I would post a review about the store….

unfortunately, I don’t think there’s any kind of “legal” implication, however, reviews sometimes (usually) hurt worse.

Post # 5
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984 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I think that is so wrong and you have every right to be upset! You thought you were helping out another bride and giving her a dress she loved. Instead you find out you got hustled by some woman so she could make a profit. You were incredibly wronged and I think you have every right to be upset. I don’t know exactly what you can do about it, but I wouldn’t ust let it go, you wouldn’t want her to do that to another bride would you?

Post # 6
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204 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010 - Catholic Ceremony, Cultural Hall Reception

I would be seriously peeved.  I’m not sure that you can do much other than write her a nasty, nasty email.  Also, if you connected with her through weddingbee, it might be good to “out” her so that other girls don’t get scammed!

I am so sorry that this happened to you!

Post # 7
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621 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

OMG, this is soooo wrong. We get attached to our dresses and only let them go to make someone else feel special. That lady/store doing such a bad thing. think about it…karma..she will get hers, and hopefully someone is happy to have your dress. You have a right to be upset, but be happy that another bride out there is going to wear it on her special day!

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

oh my gosh she not only flat out LIED, but weaved an elaborate story about her family and the wedding and all kinds of bs.  (i would leave a bad review, that is extremely shady business)  that is wrong.  i know you’re hurt, but just think about the girl who purchased it, you know she must be in love with it so i wouldnt worry about that part, i know that doesnt make you feel 100% better though.

Post # 9
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5263 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

Yeah, I’d be really mad. I’d definitely post a snarky review. That just shows bad character right there. She could have easily been upfront, that was a dishonest way to go about buying the dress. While it may not be illegal, it is immoral, and I think you have every right to be mad. 

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I am SO sorry this happened to you! I’d find out the name of her store, write bad reviews of her and it everywhere you can, and I might even call the BBB to report her scamming ways! Also, maybe write to the people who run preownedweddingdresses.com and tell them what happened. They might kick her off or post a warning about her scam!

The crappy stuff out of the way- Congratulations on the coming baby! 😀

Post # 12
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414 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I am so sorry this has happened. I must say though I am truly touched by your generosity!  Though she lied I think what you were willing to do for someone else is remarkable and I am sorry this turned out so bad.

Post # 13
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619 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

Wow, of all the low things to do…what a scumbag move on her part….and scumbag is being polite and ladylike…Im so sorry you had to go through this. Please know that good things do happen in life and this blood sucking, money hungry “BLEEP” isn’t the norm in this world….shame on her…Karma is a bitch….

Post # 14
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300 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

WOW! That is wrong on so many levels. It’s sad to think someone could actually sleep after doing any kind of business that way. I’m going to tell myself she is a desperate, broke, lonely woman who is in dire need of money to feed herself and her 17 children…that helps me feel not so pissed that she did this to you. Like others have said, what goes around comes around. It’ll bite her one way or another. As for her staff making another one…I think I’d have a few choice words about what her and her staff can go do with their replica.

On a happier note…congrats on both your wedding and your baby! So exciting.

Post # 15
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1982 posts
Buzzing bee

I just don’t get it… ok, it’s one thing to lie, but why come back and tell you about it? She’s a low, low human being.

Post # 16
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343 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

WOW I’m so sorry about that!!  So horrible, you didn’t deserve that treatment AT ALL.  I would feel just the way you do, that is really hard.  But you were being the good person you are & trying to do a nice thing.  At the end of the day, you get to go on continuing to be that nice person, and she has to go on continuing to be that crazy, lying BIA–H! That is not the way to do business…

…and if it’s any consolation — KARMA!

 

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