- 8 years ago
- Wedding: June 2016
Hi all! I’m new to weddingbee, but so far I love the site and community…
Anyway I would like to ask your opinion on a matter.
So basically, I deeply dislike my fiancee’s mother. I dislike her so much. She makes my blood boil by just the thought of her. Ugh, I know it’s not healthy, but that’s were I am at right now. Anyway, the reason I have such a deep disliking towards her is because of how she treats her son.
Here is an example of an occasion: When we first started dating we were both Undergrads and we both still lived at home with our parents. One day he was cooking at night after a workout and she flipped out that he was cooking, and made a lot of inappropriate comments , including stuff about me (whom I had never even met!)… Anyway, she has a son, who is felon and SCARY, and lives with them, he is a complete peiece of garbage, but after he over heard them fighting, he ran upstairs grabbed a gun and put it to his head and said “if you ever talk like that to mom again i will blow your brains out” (SCARY!! I TOLD U!!). Anyway, he got the phone and decided to call the police (because obviously thats the logical thing to do !!). His mom made every attempt to get him to NOT call, including disconnected the phone while he was talking to the police. His mom faught so hard to protect her other son (the felon!), and told him that if the police came she would say that he (my Boyfriend or Best Friend at the time) had the gun and he was the one doing this (mind you he’s a hard working man who is now a MEDICAL STUDENT!). Anyway finally the police came, after he called again, but by then their mother had given the felon her keys and told him to leave. When the police came, she told them that my Boyfriend or Best Friend had the gun, and that she was scared for her life, and he had to leave. So she kicked him out for nothing, PURPOSELY tried to get him in arrested, just to protect her son the golden child THE FELON (whom is 25!) and my Boyfriend or Best Friend was 23!! Anyway so after this after much convincing I convinced him to stay at my house with my family while he looked for a place. She did not call, text, try to get a hold of him to make sure he wasn’t sleeping under a tree. NOTHING.
Anyway, now he has made peace with her ( it look him about a month and HE initiated contact, and there was no IM SORRY or ANYTHING of the SORT!) THIS ISN’T THE FIRST TIME SHE’S DONE SOMETHING CRAZY LIKE THAT EITHER. He has told me that while in HIGH SCHOOL she kickedd him out before for nothing, and he’s slept in his car many times while she cooled down. SHE’S A UGHH, TERRIBLE PERSON TO SAY THE LEAST.
ANYWAY! SO NOW DOWN TO MY QUESTION: IT MAKES ME ANGRY AS ALL HELL WHEN HE TELLS ME HE’S OVER THERE. HE WENT OVER THERE TO CLEAN HER HOUSE JUST JUST YESTERDAY BECAUSE HE FEELS BAD THAT NO ONE THERE HELPS HER, AND BLAH BLAH BLAH. WHEN EVER I TEXT HIM WHERE ARE YOU, WHEN IT’S NOT SCHOOL, IT’S HONESTLY ALMOST ALWAYS “AT MY MOMS” WE HAVE LIMITIED TIME TO SEE EACHOTHER AND THATS WHAT HE CHOOSES TO DO. YES, I STILL GET MY FAIR SHARE OF TIME, BUT STILL. UGHHH IT JUST MAKES ME SO ANGRY,,,,, DO I HAVE A RIGHT TO FEEL LIKE THIS, ARE MY FEELINGS VALID, OR AM I JUST BEING IMMATURE??
UGHH, GOOD THING WE DON’T PLAN ON GETTING MARRIED UNTIL AFTER WE BOTH GRADUATE MEDICAL SCHOOL. ITS GOING TO TAKE ME A WHILE TO GET PAST THINKING SHE’S A ..B, ER, BAD PERSON 🙂
XOXOXO EVERYONE 🙂