(Closed) do i have to have a maid of honor?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Walnut Beach Resort

I say, it’s your wedding so do whatever you want! If it will be tough to Choose between girls, I’d say go without to avoid any hurt feelings.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Have two, if you like. Or just don’t have one at all – tell them all you could never choose between them – and then divvy up the Maid/Matron of Honor responsibilities between the two who will be closest to you during the ceremony. One can hold your bouquet, the other can hand the ring to the officiant, etc. 

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Walnut Beach Resort

Or it’s very common to have two MOHs, to give you another choice.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@colorofmyheart:  You don’t have to do anything. That being said, a friend of mine couldn’t choose so she had 2 co-maids of honor while her groom only had 1 best man. 

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

are either married? could you have a maid and matron of honor? Or have 2 or none.  its your wedding, do what you want!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

You can do whatever you want!

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’m fine with the idea of 2 but be mindful of divying up the Maid/Matron of Honor responsibilities and how you will handle pictures. It sucks hearing “MOH and Best Man” during the photos when there are two and the other runs over at every opportunity. PM me for more tips on how to make it work 😉

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

It’s your wedding, do what you want! The most important thing is that no one’s feelings are hurt! From the Weddingbee boards its sounds like there’s a lot of brides whose friendships with some BMs end up strained by the time the wedding is over. That’s so sad! 

I have 4 bridesmaids and 2 maids of honor.

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