(Closed) Do I have to invite him? Ugh.

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I don’t think you are under any obligation to invite him. If your fiance doesn’t mind cutting him off the list then I say he should not get an invite. He sounds kind of icky and I wouldn’t want to invite him either!

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Ok, so your FI’s Brother’s Friend?

NO! Too far off the radar, girl. He has ties to your Future Brother-In-Law not your Fiance.

Does your Fiance want to invite him? Personally, I can’t imagine he wants you NEAR him seeing as how he invited you to a THREESOME!!! AAAHHHH

Just say no. No, you don’t want him around and he creeps you out ever since he asked you to be in a threesome. I’d say any guy with half a brain would say “OK i understand” to that one.

Post # 5
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Busy bee

The only thought I have is whether or not your Fiance cares if he will be there. To be honest, just bc he’s friends with Future Brother-In-Law doesn’t make him a vital part of your day. So unless Fiance is insistent over inviting him….just draw a line through his name!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I don’t think you have to invite him at all.

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

EW EW EW

NO NO NO

Does your Fiance know about what he asked you? Oh it’s so gross

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Yeaaaah…that’s a little gross.  I think if Fiance really wants to invite him you may just need to suck it up, although I agree that kinda sucks.  Have you discussed with your Fiance why he makes you feel so uncomfortable?

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Is your Fiance actually friends with this guy? Or are they just friends by association? If they are friends & would hang out regardless if your FI’s brother is there or not, then I say you have to invite him. We have to remeber this is our FI’s day, just as much as it is ours….and, if your Fiance truely wants him there, he should be allowed to invite him….(imho) 🙂  

Post # 12
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

THat would be a big fat NO!

Post # 13
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Sugar bee

I dont think you need to invite him and if you do it would only be out of respect for Future Brother-In-Law.  Can you talk to him and see what he thinks? Or talk to your Fiance about it?

Post # 14
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Busy Beekeeper

No way do you need to invite him!  Don’t think twice about it!

Post # 15
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Busy bee

Nope. Nope.  Nope. You do not have to invite him. 

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

he is a friend of a family member – he is not your friend.  that doesnt put him on the nearest and dearest list so hes a no to the invite

 

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