Post # 16
I think you can get away with not inviting her, or giving him a +1. I’m kind of worried the same problem will arise on my part–I’m only allowing my friends to bring their SOs if they have been dating a while and if I’ve actually met them more than once–actually had a conversation with them.
Don’t worry about, I think you’ll be fine without inviting her. 🙂
Post # 17
You should definitely not feel obligated to invite her. Not one bit.
Post # 18
It doesn’t sound as if she qualifies to me – your friend’s not from out of town, they’re not long term and you don’t know her.
The fact that she’s a piece of work just reinforces why you came up with your guidelines!
Post # 19
You don’t have to invite her. It doesn’t meet any of your guidelines and you don’t want to regret having her there if you really don’t want to. If he ask to bring her let him know you never meet her and if you get a chance to hang out together you can decide then.
Post # 20
if it not a serious relationship i dont think you need to invite them… I understand i’ve going through the same thing