(Closed) Do I have to invite my fiance’s first cousin to our wedding?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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1986 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m sorry- but she obviously doesn’t want to be in the same place as you and you don’t want to be in the same place as her.  I think it is best for everyone that she didn’t get an invitation/ come

Post # 4
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752 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Hi – I actually have a similar situation.  The difference is that the rage is never directed at me. 

The person who experienced these same symptoms was sat down and told that he is welcome at the wedding but need to know in advance if he wants to go and if he anticipates being able to keep it together during the event.  He has said he wants to be there and behavior won’t be an issue.  Parents have assigned point people to help entertain him and if at any point behavioral issues sprout up or if his mood begins to turn, then he is to be removed immediately.

I have been promised that all of this can occur without causing a scene.  I’m trying to be optimistic and hope that is the case.  If you do not have family support to manage your FI’s cousin’s behavior, then I say don’t invite her.

Post # 6
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1941 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

ETA – never mind, just saw your last post that you’re planning on inviting her – best of luck!

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