(Closed) Do I HAVE to invite them?

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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1846 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

You guys haven’t spoken in two years. I wouldn’t invite them personally. Doesn’t sound like you really want to, and your day won’t be made any better by their presence, so no.. 

You don’t have to invite everyone who’s wedding you’ve attended

Post # 4
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581 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

No, you don’t have to. There isn’t a reciprocity rule for etiquette.

Post # 5
Hostess
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

No, I don’t think so. 

Post # 6
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927 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Nope!

Post # 7
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9955 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Etiquette Snob here…

Agree with what Americano: wrote, altho “reciprocity” is the norm when it comes to Social Occasions / Obligations, the same isn’t necessarily true for Weddings.

So invite them only if you truly would LOVE to see them there.

  

Post # 8
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747 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I wouldn’t invite them.

I didn’t invite my college roommate to my wedding even though I went to hers 5 years ago. Haven’t spoken since.

 

Post # 9
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257 posts
Helper bee

I read somewhere that you only have to reciprocate if you attended their wedding in the past year.

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