Post # 1
Do I have to let my Future Mother-In-Law see me before the wedding, while I’m getting ready? Her and I don’t really get a long at all. Do I also have to let some of my aunts see me? I’m shy and having so many people in my hotel suite is stressful for me.
Post # 2
No you absolutely don’t. You’re allowed to have as many or as few people getting ready with you as you want. If she asks to be involved just tell her you’ll be really busy and stressed out, and that you’ll see her in the ceremony.
Post # 3
No you don’t. It’s your wedding day and you should be surrounded by the people who will be uplifting you and calming you. All positivity. You are not obligated to invite someone you don’t get along with, even if it’s your fiance’s mother or your aunts. Does he mind if you don’t invite her? If not, I can’t see why it’s a problem. The only way it’d be awkward is if you included other female members of you fiance’s family but not his mom. Otherwise, you’re fine!
Post # 4
The only reason to see Future Mother-In-Law would be if you are taking photos ahead of time. Otherwise, no.
Post # 5
Ok fantastic! No I only included my bridesmaids and my mom.