(Closed) Do I have to send two Thank You Notes? Sent thanks you’s, then received a gift.

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
714 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@JustBea:  Yes, you need to send a thank you for the gift.  Your previous Thank You was simply for their attending your wedding. 

Post # 4
542 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think you do need to send a separate thank you.  Otherwise, they may wonder if the gift was received/liked/appreciated.  As the gift was after the original thank you, the new thank you will just address the gift, so – not redundant.

Post # 5
4137 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

yes, you need to send another thank you specifically for the gift.

Post # 6
10851 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

@JustBea: Personally, I would call them and say that you received their gift and wanted to thank them again for everything. Darling Husband took pictures of us using various items from his friends and emailed them with a jokey thank you/good work since our stupid cards are taking forever. Of course we’re going to send a real thank you card (hopefully very very shortly), but his friends all thought it was pretty funny and I think they liked seeing their items “in action” 😉  Like you, I’d worry that sending another card was redundant or awkward.

Post # 7
7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Agree with PP

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