(Closed) Do i have to worry about HER!

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 4
1046 posts
Bumble bee

Why are you posting on a discussion board if you don’t want (certain) opinions? lol


Post # 6
5388 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Daisys4U: That seems arkward. I wouldn’t say that you have to worry about her, but I would probably worry about my husband. What kind of movie was he having her hold? Maybe that is the reason why she was looking at you in a funny way.

Post # 8
5388 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Daisys4U: I hope he is not up to anything shady. Best of luck to you!

Post # 10
8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I think he is the one to worry about. It takes two to go astray.

Post # 11
505 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Why don’t you just ask him?  Just tell him that you thought that conversation was strange.  I don’t think that there is anything odd about a guy having a conversation with another women?   Maybe he didn’t really think much of his conversation with her. And who cares if she was giving you the 123 look, maybe she was checking out your outfit..maybe that is just her face?  I don’t mean to, but I know when I am checking out peoples outfit I can have a stink-eye face and not mean anything about it..i’m just in deep thought about their outfit.  Or thinking…ohhhh…i have a better pair of shoes.


Post # 12
2867 posts
Sugar bee

I agree with Ms Sassy and Noritake22

Post # 13
403 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@noritake22: I was going to say something similar.

You don’t really have to worry about her. What you need to ask yourself is whether you trust him. She can’t cheat on you; he’s the only one who can. The ball’s in his court on this one. Has he ever given you a reason not to trust him before? Do you trust him now? Those are the answers you need to figure out for yourself in order to know whether you should worry about him with her.

Personally, I’d be a little annoyed, jealous, upset or whatever about her. But I trust my fiance completely, because he’s never given me a reason not to. Plus, he was cheated on in the past, and would never do it to someone else. If that wasn’t the case and this had happened, I’d need to talk to him about it honestly or, if it was the final straw, figure out for myself whether this was the kind of relationship I wanted to be in.

Post # 14
2204 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Ok, you don’t want to hear the advice of counseling or leaving him..

I’ve skimmed your other posts and to be very honest, it sounds like you are in a very unhealthy relationship. Your husband and his family treat you poorly and now you suspect him of having an affair? At what point do you stand up for yourself?

Ok, I don’t mean to be harsh. You are in a difficult position and I can understand why, if you still love him, you don’t want to leave.

But seriously, if you want to make your marriage work (and this is where I’m going away from the healthy options of counseling or leaving him), you need to stand up for yourself and not tolerate verbal and emotional abuse.

Your other post, where he wanted you to sign everything over to him, should be the biggest sign to you that maybe this marriage is not meant to work out. Why do you want to be with someone that treats you like that? Sometimes in life, you need to be selfish and do what is best for only you.

Post # 15
2562 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I have read your other posts – I think that you don’t have to worry about her, you have to worry about HIM. You obviously don’t trust him, he doesn’t treat anyone, including you with any respect. His family treats you like crap and he lets it happen. To be honest he sounds like a total dirtbag.

I won’t tell you to leave or get counselling because you obviously don’t want to hear it. But I have no other real advice to give you because nothing else will solve your problems with this guy.

Post # 16
2476 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I skimmed your other posts also, and sorry to say this, but you don’t seem at all happy!  I agree with @pinkstripes and @ms mini. 


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