Post # 1
Hello I am not sure what to do.
My 1st cousin is getting married in a few days and did not invite me. He invited some other 1st cousins and my brother but not me. We see each other maybe once or twice every year or so at family functions. Why invite my brother my father and not me? He did e mail me and say that the guest list is limmited and blah blah blah..but my question is, do I invite him to my wedding? I am getting married in a year, and i know im not supposed to be angry, but I am. I also don’t want to seem like a jerk either. So what do you think I should do? Invite them anyway?
Post # 3
I think that if you have room in your budget and your guest list, it would be a nice gesture. As you get more into your planning and closer to your day, you will understand more about why his guest list was limited. You may find you don’t have room to put him on your guest list either. The fact that you weren’t ivited to his wedding shouldn’t be a factor. He did email you with an explanation.
Post # 4
Seems odd to invite your brother and not you. It seems like if there was really a tight guest list, only the parents would be invited and not kids ie. neither you or your brother would’ve been invited. My cousin did not invite me or ANY of his extended family to their destination wedding, but I am still inviting him to mine. Some family members were insulted that he didn’t invite them but it’s really up to you. Be the bigger person and invite him if you can. 🙂