(Closed) Do I invite her?

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee

@JKStover:  It doesn’t sound like she is a friend so I dont know why you would invite her?

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011 - Florida Aquarium

Nope! I sure wouldn’t invite her if I were you.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Don’t invite her..ugh I hate friends who date their friends exes, that is just totally wrong.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I wouldn’t, I left some nice friends off who I’m just not that close to, despite having mutual friends.  It wasn’t that they have upset me, it’s just i don’t feel we are close, or willl still be friends in 10 years, and we were tight on space.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

No way. She doesn’t deserve to be there and she hardly sounds like a friend. Maybe time to move on from that friendship. 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I wouldn’t invite her. Sounds like you havn’t even spoken to her for quite some time. 

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

You absolutely do not have to invite her, and for your own happiness I say don’t do it. What a b!

Post # 11
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@JKStover:  I don’t think it’s necessarily wrong to date a friend’s ex (I’m married to a friend’s ex, though she’s not such a close friend). But regardless, why invite someone who’s nasty to you, just because you share a group of friends? Your “group” will manage fine without her for one night.

p.s. The spelling is “prima donna”, Italian for “first lady”.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I wouldn’t invite her.She sounds like a rude and inconsiderate person.

Post # 13
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Blushing bee

Nope!! Don’t invite her. Surround yourself with love and support, and don’t invite people just because you feel like you have to. Your day with be stressful enough (hopefully not) without her!

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Um.

You’re not friends.

She’s nice been kind to you.

You rarely see her.

Why would you invite her? Just because she’s friends with people you do like does not mean she gets to come to your wedding.

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Church

Definitely not. You don’t need that kind of anxiety/drama on your wedding day. The only people that should be there are family and those that you or your fiance feel close to and want to share in your special day. She doesn’t sound like any of those good things. I doubt she would expect an invitation, either. And you definitely will not be stepping on anyone’s toes (I’m sure your friends would understand her not being invited, if that’s what you are concerned about).

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