- 9 years ago
- Wedding: July 2011
@alleycat1984: “Ex boyfriends are off limits. That’s like, the rules of feminism!”
Seriously though, there’s nothing wrong with dating a friend’s ex as long as you’re sensitive to everybody’s feelings. I think that in this case the OP owes this ex friend nothing and shouldn’t invite her, but it’s not always like that. Sometimes things just don’t work out between people, and I think it’s unfair to ban friends from seeing someone because you once dated.
When ever I start getting hung up on whether or not to invite people I stop and ask myself “wait. Would I be hurt if I wasn’t invited to thier wedding? Would I expect to be invited?” If the answer is no then I instantly stop worrying about feeling weird about it. You’re not going to miss her on your wedding day so who cares?
it may have been said, already, but just in case it got lost in all the comments…..
😉 and don’t feel bad about it.
Your friends will have plenty of people to hang out with without this . . . person being invited!
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