Post # 1
My Maid/Matron of Honor asked me for my guest list for my shower. I am having a day (really month of) of wedding coordinator who has been great keeping in touch and answering questions and all that.
Do I invite her to my bridal shower???? My FH says no.
Post # 3
Unless you have become “true” good friends with you, then no. If you are only using her because you have hired her to do a job for you, she will not be expecting an invitation and you are not required to invite her.
Post # 4
technically, no, you don’t invite her.
However, if you have gotten really close with her and view her as a friend as well as a coordinator, then feel free to invite her, there is no etiquette rule that says you can’t 🙂
I would just specify to her that she doesn’t need to worry about a gift, you would just be grateful for her presence! that way it isn’t awkward for her trying to figure out if she should get you one or not.