(Closed) Do I invite my uncle’s ex-wife?

• farmersdaughter
• 11 years ago

• Wedding: June 2010

My uncle was married to his ex-wife for about 20 years, and they recently went through a really messy divorce. I was never SUPER close to either of them, but we all spent time together at family reunions, and they have 3 children together (my cousins.) He’s now remarried and I’ve invited him and his new wife to the wedding. My mom thinks I should invite his ex-wife.

I’m torn about it because my whole life, I’ve known her as my aunt. Is that supposed to change now that they’re divorced and he’s remarried? I don’t think she would come, as it would be super awkward for her to show up at her ex-husband’s family event, but is it awkward of me to invite her?

• farmersdaughter
• 11 years ago

• Wedding: June 2010

She lives really far away, so I really don’t think she’ll show up/cause a scene…actually, its possible my uncle won’t even come.

Ugh guest lists are so stressful…