(Closed) Do I invite them??

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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8738 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@grnhrt613: That is completely up to you. Do you want to invite them to the wedding? Do you have room for them? Would they know anyone else? Would their kids be invited?

There is no requirement for you to invite them, but if you want them there you should.

Post # 4
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130 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@grnhrt613: I am a nanny and am inviting the family to my wedding. But I am going on my third year of being with them. (I would have had a difficult time deciding at that point) I am very close to the girl and am having her in my wedding. I quess my advice would be if you think you will be close to them until and after your wedding, I would consider it. If you think once you stop watching them you wont talk to them anymore, I wouldn’t. Simply, don’t feel like you have to invite them just because you watch them and they talk to you about wedding planning. If I didn’t feel like my day would be missing something without them there, I wouldn’t invite them..

Post # 5
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780 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

If you have a good relationship with the family and can afford to invite them, I vote yes 🙂 – especially if the wedding is kid inclusive.  I am sure the little ones will want to see you in your lovely dress…  If it is not kid inclusive- I’m not sure…

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