Post # 1
I have been babysitting for a family for a little over a year. They have invited me to their house once for dinner (I wasn’t able to make it) and to one of their three children’s birthday parties. I am witih their kids five days a week and the parents talk to me about my wedding planning sometimes. I am not sure if I am supposed to invite them to my wedding or not. Any thoughts???? Thanks!!
Post # 3
@grnhrt613: That is completely up to you. Do you want to invite them to the wedding? Do you have room for them? Would they know anyone else? Would their kids be invited?
There is no requirement for you to invite them, but if you want them there you should.
Post # 4
@grnhrt613: I am a nanny and am inviting the family to my wedding. But I am going on my third year of being with them. (I would have had a difficult time deciding at that point) I am very close to the girl and am having her in my wedding. I quess my advice would be if you think you will be close to them until and after your wedding, I would consider it. If you think once you stop watching them you wont talk to them anymore, I wouldn’t. Simply, don’t feel like you have to invite them just because you watch them and they talk to you about wedding planning. If I didn’t feel like my day would be missing something without them there, I wouldn’t invite them..
Post # 5
If you have a good relationship with the family and can afford to invite them, I vote yes 🙂 – especially if the wedding is kid inclusive. I am sure the little ones will want to see you in your lovely dress… If it is not kid inclusive- I’m not sure…