(Closed) Do i keep them??

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Do i Get rid of BM #2
    yes : (15 votes)
    75 %
    no : (5 votes)
    25 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    944 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2009

    Oh holy hell.  This is exactly why I am not having a wedding party.  I had drama at the beginning too, so much so I was upset with 2 out of the 3 and didn’t care if they even came.  Personally, I would just cut it off and have your Maid/Matron of Honor only and have the other girls do something else if you want them too.

    You said your sister is getting married in 2011 but you also said she is getting married two weeks before or after you–but it says you are getting married this year.  I’m confused.

    Post # 4
    Member
    1336 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2010

    Yes, it sounds like there’s already drama, and is it gets closer to both of your weddings, she sounds like she won’t be helpful to you at all.  And keeping things away from you, not cool.  I would just drop and it and not deal with the drama. 

     

    Post # 6
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    186 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    Maybe just do a Maid/Matron of Honor and a Bridesmaid or Best Man and Skip all the rest of the Drama! I know it hurts all brides feeling including mine. When your friends and family seem as if your wedding could mean less to them! I’ve experienced that feeling with some people. Then I realize if they don’t care then they are really selfish people who can’t put aside their feelings to make a loved one happy!

    Post # 7
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    74 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    If you’re afraid of having serious issues if you kick her out (which I can almost guarantee there will be!) you can always ask her to step down as a Bridesmaid or Best Man so she can focus more on her own wedding, but ask her to do a reading or something instead. that way, she’s out of your hair, but you’re still the better person!!

    Good luck!

    Post # 8
    Member
    516 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    I duno I think you are your sisters really need to sit down and talk things out. There is no reason to have hostility at either of your weddings.

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