(Closed) Do I leave him and start over?

posted 3 years ago in Engagement
Post # 61
19 posts
  • Wedding: February 2012

My husband is also 6 years younger.  We started dating when he was 24 and he proposed 3 years after.  Age/timeline is not the issue, it is just an excuse. 

If he really loves you, he would propose when he knew it is very important to you (because making compromises and the other half happy is important in a relationship, isn’t it?).  I am not saying he doesn’t love you at all, he just loves himself more. 

ps. After 18 months of trying and one miscarriage, we are planning to see a doctor.  So if you really want to have a family…you may need to start now. 

  • This reply was modified 3 years, 3 months ago by  Water3000.
Post # 63
1890 posts
Buzzing bee

If kids are a dealbreaker for you, I would say move on. Otherwise, it sounds like he does want to marry you, but just is not ready yet. Unfortunately, that’s a risk you run with dating a younger guy. I would just take a deep breath and continue to wait, maybe start planning how you can work together to help him pay off those loans.

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