(Closed) Do I NEED an MOH?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1418 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I personally do not think you need to have one if there is no one who can fill the role because it should be a special honor for a very close friend/relative – you shouldn’t have a Maid/Matron of Honor just to have one.  There are many couples who choose to have no bridal party at all!  It really is whatever you want to do 🙂  

Post # 4
140 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I’m not having a Maid/Matron of Honor I love all of my friends and I didn’t want to have to choose. However I do have my two closest best friends standing closest to me, and they will get a little extra something as a gift on the sly, but I’m doing pretty much everything and I know all the girls will plan the bach party together cause we are all pretty close friends.

Post # 5
695 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I couldn’t choose and it didn’t feel right to single out one of my very special ladies as Maid/Matron of Honor, so I am having them all be part of the “bridal party” and not using the terms Maid/Matron of Honor or Bridesmaid or Best Man at all.

Post # 6
3620 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I dont’ have a Maid/Matron of Honor, I have 4 wonderful bridesmaids. Fiance has 3 Groomsmen and 1 best man. It’s just fine!

Post # 7
2859 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011 - Bartram's Garden

I’m not having a Maid/Matron of Honor, I just have 3 BMs.

Post # 8
1066 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Honestly, it makes sense in your situation.  There’s nothing wrong with that, I will probably end up doing the same when the time comes.  I think unless one person really stands out among the rest, or it’s a sister or something, then it’s a good idea, but otherwise, I think no…

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