Post # 1
This question has been asked many times, and I know people will say I don’t NEED to do anything, but I’m having a bridal moment and am worried no one will have fun if we don’t have an open bar….
We can afford a couple drinks for each guest…
Would you prefer wine at the table during dinner, or two drink tickets? Do drink tickets seem cheap?
Post # 2
kearaaaaaa: Go get a glass of wine, sweetheart! Drink tickets are perfectly fine. Wine at the table during dinner is perfectly fine. Remember, you’re offering free drinks (partially), so if someone’s bothered….kinda sucks to be them, right?! People have tons of fun at weddings that don’t even offer alcohol. You’ll be fine.
FI and I are planning on supplying beer and wine only.
Post # 3
No one should be pulling out a wallet at your wedding. So just host whatever you can afford.
Post # 4
We’re not having any alcohol and I still think people will have a good time. So even if you have a cash bar, people should still have fun. And if they’re too cheap to buy their own drink, but can’t have fun without alcohol they have a problem that’s not yours.
Post # 5
Can you do beer and wine only? I think it’d be better than drink tickets or nothing at all.
Post # 6
Just have beer, wine and soft drink. There is no need to have an open bar but you should host whatever you decide to offer.
Post # 7
I am of the opinion that you should host all of your guests’ food and beverages for the evening, but your open bar does not need to include anything that you do not wish for it to include. For example, our “open bar” consisted only of non-alcoholic beverages, including iced tea, sodas, and juices.
Post # 8
Host what you can afford. Drink tickets are appropriate at a fundraiser or a commerical or corporate event, not at a private social affair. You should never create two tiers of guests, those who can afford or opt to pay and those who can’t or won’t. Wine at the table with dinner is absolutely fine.
Post # 9
You don’t need an open bar, but you need to not charge guests for their refreshments. Whether that’s a dry wedding, just beer and wine, or beer/wine/specialty cocktail those are all acceptable alternatives to an open bar.
Post # 10
It may depend upon your state laws regarding liquor serving in events and also formality of reception, but in my country and circle totally acceptable way of serving alcohol is to put some bottles on dinner table and let people help themselves (usually it’s 1 or 2 spirits and red and white wine) – it doesn’t break the bank and you can use leftovers for family occasions (we still haven’t finished our May 2014 wedding wine). Doesn’t cover all peoples preferences, but then again, food served in wedding reception also may not be everyone’s favorite. Actual bar with huge drink choice is kind of extravaganza and you can absolutely have wedding with something simpler and cheaper.
Post # 11
- Wedding: April 2015 - Miami, Fl
We are not having an open bar to cut on costs. Also half of the guest list does not drink so it would be a waste. We’re having a lunch ceremony at a restaurant. We are hosting soft drinks, coffee, and pitchers of sangria and carafes of mimosas on each table.
Post # 12
I would prefer wine! “tickets” anything have a festival or public event vibe & I would be very put off by them at a personal event. I think serving wine with dinner is very nice. I would enjoy that & appreciate that as a guest.
Post # 13
Open bar is great bit stretching your budget to the max is not. Beer and wine is always a great choice and I don’t thing anyone would complain. The mimosa pitchers used by the other bee sounds adorable. I’ve also seen “stock the bar” engagement parties where guests bring liquor of their choice that can be used at the wedoing. All depends on your venue and if you can bring outside drinks for that one though. Good luck!
Post # 14
And to answer your title question – No! You do not NEED! An open bar! Not one bit, don’t even think about it. wine service during dinner is very nice. if you want to offer a full bar outside if that, then it’s totally okay for it to be a cash bar.
Post # 15
If you can’t afford a full open bar, do open beer and wine Only. Drink tickets are really cheesy And your guests are already paying good money and time to be at your wedding (gift, possibly travel, possibly new outfit, etc plus giving you their day) so they shouldn’t need to pay for basic drinks.