(Closed) Do I need to invite…

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 1
Member
442 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

So my old college roomie was invited to our engagement party. she and her H didn’t RSVP and I haven’t really talked to her since her own wedding in August 2010. My mom thinks that because I invited them to the engagement party I need to invite them to the wedding. Thoughts? (I wouldn’t be against inviting them I just feel like it may be a waste o an invite lol)

Next, there is an old family friend who just got married and invited Fiance and myself and I was also invited to the bridal shower. I do not care for this girl or her H. What’s the policy here. Do I need to invite them?

Post # 3
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1710 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

Old college roomie, yes, since she was invited to the engagement party.

Old family friend, no, because you aren’t obligated to reciprocate invites.

Post # 4
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655 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@TheFutureMrsNguyen:  I would say no, you don’t need to invite the college roomie. I can’t beliece they didn’t even bother to RSVP!

The old family friend is a toughie. I’d feel obligated to invite them but I think most bees will say “It’s your wedding, invite who you like”

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