- 8 months ago
- Wedding: June 2019
A quick update:
After taking into consideration all the comments on this thread, I changed my date.
Right after the venues and photographer were booked, I learned (secondhand) that his brother/ best man changed their vacation plans. In fact, they had done it shortly after the discussion during which they indicated their plans were immovable, without letting us know.
I’m glad my wedding date is sorted, but so annoyed that we had to compromise when it obviously wasn’t that important. Our new date has a 60% chance of rain (outdoor wedding) and forces us to postpone our honeymoon. Not to mention, I don’t get to celebrate her birthday with my mom, and we have to push back when we can start trying for a family.
Lesson learned- don’t make compromises for selfish and flaky people!