(Closed) Do I need to send an invite…

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1426 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

It might be nice to send two, but I don’t think it really matters.  As long as they aren’t moving any time soon, just send one.

Post # 4
14494 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Yes, it is appropriate that you send a seperate invite to all the adult head of households.

Post # 5
368 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I would send a separate invite for each couple.

Post # 6
1932 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2008

I didn’t follow the rule of sending a separate invite to the adult children in their parents’ homes. And if it’s family, you can clarify by mouth that your SIL can bring her Boyfriend or Best Friend. That’s how we did it, my fiance’s brother asked us if he could bring his Girlfriend before we even sent out invites. 

We just sent an additional invite to his brothers’ girlfriend at her house.

Post # 7
611 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

If kids living at home are over the age of 18 then you should send a seperate invite to each person.  One addressed to Mother-In-Law and another to SIL/ Her Boyfriend or Best Friend.  Because SIL is in a serious (I would assume:) relationship with Boyfriend or Best Friend then his name should also appear on her invitation.  I know it seems tedious, but it makes for better relationships later.  My FI’s borthers live at home with their mom and we are sending seperate save the dates and invitations to each person.  Both brothers mentioned that they liked getting their own save the dates By The Way.

Post # 8
837 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Send one to SIL/BF together and one to Mother-In-Law (as long at the SIL/BF are adults which I’m assuming they are?).

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