(Closed) Do I send a gift? Etiquette help please.

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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7152 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

No. You didn’t get an invite, so you don’t have to get them a gift. A thank you card for the gift that they gave you is all.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee

If you don’t feel close to them and you weren’t invited to the wedding.. you are under no obligation to send a gift.

Post # 6
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1701 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

No invite=no gift obligation.  Since they gave you something nice, you could send them something off their registry or a restaurant gift card.  Thoughtful since your weddings are close together, but not necessary.

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

You aren’t required to send them anything except a thank you card for the gift they sent to you; however, if it were me, I would feel guilty not sending them a gift, so I would either send them a gift card with a nice card or something off of their registry.

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