(Closed) Do I send a Thank you card?

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
911 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013 - The Down Town Club, Philadelphia

@lashesforever:  I would wait until after the wedding. You already acknowledged the (amazingly kind) gesture, I think to send a card now might be overkill?

Post # 4
3267 posts
Sugar bee

@lashesforever:  It is always best to thank someone immediately.  It looks less grateful to send out a thank you note, 6 + months after the fact.

Post # 5
9053 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

I think if you wrote a thank you in the Christmas card, you’ve already sent a Thank you card – just on Christmas stationery.  I’d wait until after the wedding and send them maybe a thanks for coming, thanks again for the dress note, and maybe a photo.

Post # 6
823 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I agree, you’ve already thanked them so I wouldn’t overdo it right now, but it would be nice to send another thank you after the wedding and tell them again how much their gesture meant to you on your special day. 

Post # 7
1877 posts
Buzzing bee

@lashesforever:  I would send one now, and one again after the wedding with a beautiful photo enclosed of you in the gown.  It sounds like they are wonderful people, and I am sure the wife will love seeing you in the gown on your wedding day. Enclosing a photo will make the thank you extra special. 


Post # 8
581 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I agree with the “you sent one already on Christmas stationary,” comment.

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