Post # 16
I just skimmed this shit and I was like WTF! Why is this even a question??? Why is ANY of his behavior accepatable to you that you wouldn’t leave immediately?
Get out and get to therapy, pronto! That you dealt with this for as long as you have makes me wonder about what you.
Post # 17
Run. I agree with the others, change your passwords on everything. Monitor your bank accounts, make sure he can’t get access to any of your money.
Waking you up and not allowing you to sleep is sleep deprivation. It is recognized by the UN and international human rights organizations as a form of torture. Not being permitted to sleep is extremely damaging to your mental and physical health. Sleep deprived drivers often test out similarly to drunk drivers.
That alone is plenty of reason to go. He’s abusing you.
Your husband is not available to have a relationship with you. He is already in a relationship with alcohol. And, he shows no willingness to give that up.
As for you, Bee. It’s long past time for you to check out Al Anon.
A little info about sleep deprivation and driving.