(Closed) Do I tell my BFF that I'm worried?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
4240 posts
Honey bee

That’s tough. Often, people in her situation are in denial, as they don’t see a way out of the relationship. She may become angry or defensive if you bring it up. Maybe just ask her how things are going and hope she opens up? It’s hard to watch a friend go through something like this but ultimately, she won’t leave him until she’s ready, no matter what you say.

Post # 3
284 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Women in controlling relationships aren’t likely to see them as controlling. You can express that you’re concerned about her, but then you are going to have to stop expressing that unless she talks to you about it first. Controlling men often isolate the woman, so do not abandon her. No matter what, make sure she knows that you’re always there for her.

Keep her as Maid/Matron of Honor. It may be bringing her the only happiness she has right now.

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