(Closed) Do it sound like there’s an issue to you?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

It may be a little harsh to have her decline your invite.

Perhaps your wedding will be a great way to clear the air, and really enjoy your friendship. I’m sure your emotions are running high right now and may be clouding your judgement or view of things right now!

Post # 4
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4755 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

No, there is no polite way to un invite someone.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

There is nothing you can do except that it would be rude and tacky to ask her not to attend now.  Just hope that she won’t come.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

I don’t think there is a polite way.  However, if she has been that distant, she likely won’t RSVP yes, so don’t worry about it.  And if she tries to RSVP after your deadline, just say you already sent the headcount in and unfortunately she can’t be added. 

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

This is so sad. 🙁 This is meant to be the most exciting and happy time of your lifes and you both have this dark cloud hanging over you. If your friend has told you she’s been really busy why dont you give her a call and see if she needs help with her wedding, or if she wants to catch up for a quick chat and have some wedding free time. All brides handle this ‘crazy time’ differently and she could use some understanding and support. You two can take this oppurtunity to use each other as support since your weddings are close and rebuild your friendship. At the very least let her know that you are here for her if she needs and that your looking forward to celebrating her day and have her celebrate yours. Be the bigger person and rebuild the friendship you miss. Best of luck.

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