(Closed) Do it/delegate/drop it

posted 4 years ago in October 2013
Post # 3
348 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Oooo I like this thread! Can’t wait to follow!


Do: Finish the centerpieces.

Delegate: Making the wooden direction signs to help our guests get up the mountain.  That’s fiance’s job now.

Drop: I’m considering dropping either the burlap table runners or buying bulk mason jars for drinking glasses.

Post # 4
6134 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

Do: Get the wine for our guest book. (using 4 bottles of wine with custom labels for our anniversaries and having guests sign the bottle)

Delegate: Paying off the rest of the money. Giving a spreadsheet to my mother of what is left to pay and how much and letting her handle that all on her own.

Drop: Favors. I was going to make coasters using tiles, but no longer care enough to do it. The whole set of tiles (like 200-ish) only cost me $20 so I’ll find another use for them in my house eventually lol

Post # 5
1110 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Do: Ski lift-ticket escort cards.  I have all the supplies (sticker-paper and little wire lift-ticket hangers) but I’ve been putting it off until I get more RSVPs.  I’m going to just start making them for the people I know are coming, and leave a blank space to fill in the table numbers later on.


Delegate: Table numbers with photos of us at each age.  I’m going to delegate this to my FMIL.


Drop: I’m thinking of dropping menus on the tables.  People can be surprised.


Post # 6
651 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Do: sketch decor ideas for girls night wine and cheese assembling party. I have 400 feathers to sort out for all the decor (instead of flowers) and I need to do sketches of the different items as a guide for the girls

Delegate: Transcribing and transposing music. I am a musician, but have been out of music theory practice for awhile. I only had recordings of the music for the ceremony and our first dance waltz, but we are having live music because our friends are so talented and amazing. Problem, is I don’t have time or ability to actually turn the recordings into sheet music. My amazing BM who is a perfessional performer/singer/songwriter has so kindly taken on this task and saved me from a massive freak out. WHEW!

Drop: Making my own cupcakes. I am pretty good baker, and I was going to bake 100 cupcakes for the wedding to save money, but I just won an award at school of $500 that I was not expecting. To ensure I don’t have a meltdown or a panic attack from anxiety I am putting that money towards my cupcakes. It will cover it no problem. YES! 

Post # 7
2209 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Do it: finish making list of decor items (candels, fake electric candles) needed and start working on the paper goods w graphic designing FH 

delegate: MOH offered to take the #1-20 photos for the table numbers that FH was suppose to be doing for the past 15 months!!!! At this point I just want it done 

about to drop it: i have been agonizing over picking out non-traditional music for our ceremony… I actually like canon in D and iis does give me that bridal feeling so…..

Post # 8
778 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Do:  Contact the officiant and photographer to confirm and work on details

Delegate:  Paying vendors the balance – my parents can do this.

Drop it:  Some of my DIY projects.  I wanted to make some cutesy signs for the reception, but I just don’t care enough at this point. 

Post # 9
2117 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Do it: tracking meal orders/making seating chart

Delegate it: figuring out centerpieces – my stepmom and stepsister (MOH) will be doing this (I hope….)

Drop it: elaborate slideshow w/ music. compromising by loading pictures onto a 15-inch digital picture frame and putting it near the guest book

Post # 10
239 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Ooo I love this!

Do: Write the ceremony–kinda important 🙂

Delegate: ceremony music selection can be handled by my FI. We chose musicians together but I don’t really care about the specific songs that are played.

Drop: I was going to do place cards in addition to escort cards but I’m thinking now that they aren’t necessary.

Post # 11
1962 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Love this thread!!!

Do it: Contact photographer, DJ, caterer, write ceremony and send to celebrant
Delegate: The last of the RSVPs – it’s driving me nuts, FH can chase them up
Drop it: The whole family drama thing. I’m just not going to care. I don’t need the stress, I’m not going to let it get to us on OUR day. 

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