Post # 16
I think it comes down to what extent the people are opposites. If it’s characteristics, then yes. If it’s values, then no. Well you can find the other person physically attractive but it wouldn’t work long term.
Post # 17
DH and I have the same moral values and future plans but pretty different personality traits that balance each other out to create the beautiful, harmonious life we have together.
Extrovert vs Introvert, Emotional vs Calm/Collected under pressure, Spontaneous vs Organized, etc.
Post # 18
I have 4, about to get another – my ex husband was against it and I didn’t take the plunge until after we split. My fiance is tattooed from his neck down to his ankles. He doesn’t have anything on his feet, stomach, chest, or most of his back (has one on each shoulder blade). And of course his face LOL. But that’s about it. TBH he’s a bit more covered than I’d like – I could do without the neck and knuckles being inked. But that’s my fiance and I love him exactly as he is. I love me a big bearded, tattooed man
Post # 19
I’d say so. My husband and I are opposites in so many ways (personality, tastes in foods, cultural background). Somehow it works. I’ve pondered long and hard and came to the conclusion that it might be because of familiarity. Sometimes his behavior reminds me of my sister’s or my mom’s. And I think my crazy is similar to his mom’s (hate to say it though).
Post # 20
it’s funny you say that because I think that is the reason I put up with my exH for so long. He has very similar personality traits to my sister and I was so used to her that I just let him in my life.