(Closed) Do people actually like attending showers?

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
1569 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

I think that showers are completely what you make of them. Good food and drink, fun people and conversation, and a pleasant, comfortable setting can make for a great time for everyone. Just sitting around watching someone open presents, though, is by itself not the most entertaining thing in the world. I think if the people who attend your shower all get along well, then they’ll have a good time hanging out with you and with each other and celebrating with you.

Post # 4
139 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Personally, I like showers -I think they’re fun.  My mom and sister are planning mine, and won’t let me help with anything.  My mom asked that I let them do this for me, so I gave in.  I think of it as an honor that I have people who care about me and are willing to do overly nice things for me. 🙂

Post # 6
761 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I honestly love them and wanted to do even more for my MOH’s bridal shower but her family did it all.

Post # 7
1390 posts
Bumble bee

I hate them. I’m sorry. I don’t even want them myself. I’ve been to so many in my life and as an adult, they are just as boring/painful/embarassing as they were as a child. To me, everyone has to ooh and ahh over dish towels. They take up HOURS on a Saturday afternoon and you usually end up eating fruit, pasta salad and punch…followed by cake. In addition to all of that, the games are just awful. Especially any game that requires you to ‘steal’ a present from another guest because the old ladies are vicious and in the end the ‘present’ is an ugly picture frame or a mini-calendar full of flowers.

Seriously, I’ve been to so many showers….I have over 30 first cousins alone. The typical shower as described above sucks. If you can make them fun, do it! I threw a shower for a girlfriend and it was both a surprise and also, a very simple brunch at her favorite restaurant. We brought gifts and she opened them but we also had bloody marys and amazing food. No games. No gift bags. It was soooooo much better than the ones that I’ve endured with my family. Urgh.

Post # 8
81 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I like the free food, but watching people open presents is a huge snoozefest for me.

Post # 9
3709 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I LOVE showers…both baby and bridal. I have a big, loud, rowdy family so they make every event super fun. We usually save opening gifts to the very end so if people want to leave prior to…it’s no big deal. But then again….we are the type of family to throw bbq’s and invite everybody over on a whim.

Post # 11
381 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I am not a fan of bridal showers, but baby showers for new moms I enjoy. I made it clear to my bms that I DID NOT want a bridal shower, they’re totally awesome and are gathering some ladies together for a brunch, no presents allowed. I don’t like that the whole point of a bridal shower is to shower the bride with gifts, a wedding couple gets enough gifts at/for the wedding! Baby showers are nice because it’s celebrating the pregnancy and giving the new expecting mom a fun time. IDK, that’s just me, I’ve been to a couple of bridal showers that have been boring, awkward, no fun. I see that some look great though, themed ones that are more entertaining, but personally not for me. If your friends and fam aren’t the typical bunch, I don’t think you should worry, no matter what it is an honor and people doing something really nice for you.

Post # 12
6572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

I like showers if 1) I know people there and 2) You don’t make me play games.

I like them because there’s usually good food and it’s fun to see the presents.

Post # 13
4485 posts
Honey bee

Regardless of the type of shower (bridal or baby), I have never met anyone who didn’t enjoy them. Obviously some people don’t like them, which is fine and in that case they shouldn’t attend, but you’ll have both types of people no matter what type of event it is.

Post # 14
824 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011 - The Tribute Golf Club

I’ve enjoyed all of the showers that I’ve been too.

Post # 15
466 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’ve complained about every shower I’ve ever had to go to, but always had fun once I got there.  Really, I don’t think most people enjoy going to showers, it’s mostly fun for the person gettng the presents!

That said, I had my bridal shower two weeks ago and I LOVED every second of it.  I felt so overwhelmed and spoiled and loved.  Just remember that the people who are coming to your shower are coming to celebrate you.  Be happy, gracious, and friendly, and everyone will have a good time!

Post # 16
1641 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I’m not a fan of bridal showers. However, there are a couple of people who have mentioned that they want to throw me a shower and I agreed to it. Who knows if they will, but if they do, I’ll just enjoy the company, food and drink/s!

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