Post # 31
We had looked at renting vases for our centerpieces though it turned out purchasing them ended up being cheaper than the rental. Thankfully we did because people took some of our centerpieces by the end of the night. Most asked, some didn’t. One guest even took almost everything that wasn’t nailed down! But her son was getting married so she wanted to show him our ideas, lol.
Post # 32
- Wedding: February 2015 - Chapel on Base
Thank goodness my family has some class. I have see dragged out fights over centerpieces.
Post # 33
And now I’m worried. I’m buying the blue mason jars (a sort of tribute to a grandmother who passed away) and the majority of them will be donated to our venue as part of our “cost”. They aren’t commn around here and if people take them, I might end up having to donate an extra $200 to cover the loss of any missing jars. Bummer.
Post # 34
Our centerpieces were intended to be taken home by our guests. We had boxes and packing ready, and indicated on the place card who would get the centerpiece. I learned later that some of our guests who were not getting a centerpiece badgered those intended to get them out of them. I felt horrible about it.
Post # 35
People walked off with everything not nailed down at the last wedding I attended. They even took off with the buffet food and cupcakes. There wasn’t a single centerpiece left. The bride didn’t care too much, but she was amazed and a bit horrified.
Post # 36
Just talked again to my Bride friend. She pretty much did the rounds with calling people and everyone seems to claim innocent. Someone must be embarrassed or maybe someone wanted some new decor. Either way, it’s going to cost her. Thats so sad. <br /><br />But some of your responses are even crazier than I expected! Seeing your missing centerpiece posted on social media while on your honeymoon, having people take what’s not nailed down, and having the Mother-In-Law telling people ‘sure, go ahead and take it home!’ without permission. Weddings can bring out the crazies! I had never thought about centerpieces much until this incident. I know she’s missing ‘book 2’ of a 3 set leather bound book series, WW2 mail from her Grandfather, and some china brought from her family from Europe when they immigrated. So sad. I guess when I get married in the future, I’ll have to add centerpieces on the long list of things to stress about!<br /><br /><br />
Post # 37
Its rude to take them without being told its ok. I had to stop my mom from taking the centerpiece at my niece’s wedding (they were rented!)
having said that – please come take my centerpieces after the wedding! lol I dont want to have to pack them and cart them home.
Post # 38
Oh my goodness – that’s horrible! WWII mail from her grandfather and her family’s china from when they immigrated?! How can these people take such obviously important things? Yeesh. She might need to get tougher with people – that is unacceptable.
This reminds me to label all my props with “belongs to ____” stickers! Flowers are fine, but not things I’m renting, or spent money on with the intention of keeping!
Post # 39
its funny that you brought this up. at mine i had all different types of shells and starfish… like real starfish. with wine bottles wrapped in lace and burlap with flowers. but there was a lot of people who later confessed to grabbing the shells and starfish. but no one was brave enough to actually walk off with a whole bottle. but i thought eh must have been some cool shells and sh*t that we picked out.
Post # 40
She should file a police report, honestly or at the very least let everyone know that if the items aren’t returned by “X” that she’ll be filing one. That’s entirely unacceptable of her guests to have taken such obviously precious things. I may sound and be a bit callous but I’m thinking if someone took my grandparents’ wedding rings that will be attached to my bouquet, I wouldn’t be able to be polite and would involve the police if they weren’t returned.
Post # 41
On a side note to some brides. WTH is someone going to do with 10 or more centerpieces? will you seriously have all those laterns and merucry glass around your house?
If someone rented them or if they are antiques(i would never use my antiques) then I can understand being upset, but if you have flowers, laterns, glass, candleholders etc. etc then common. What are you seriously gonna do with all that stuff? sell it? Keep them all?
The tradition around here is that people take the centerpieces. But perhaps we are just hillfolk and know no better.
Post # 42
I certainly hope nobody takes mine.. we have over $400 invest in candle holders and candles, and another $200 in candleabras.. I plan to repaint them for our future home after the wedding.
Post # 43
- Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY
OMG, this thread brought back memories from weddings in Puerto Rico. There is a tradition, or at least there was back then when I lived there, that the 1st person arriving to the table scored the centerpiece. I remember in my cousin’s wedding, people almost running to the tables, high heels, big hair and all, to grab the centerpiece…I witnessed at least one family feud over a centerpiece…oh, soo classy!
Post # 44
Wow. That’s crazy, and so sad that her sentimental items went missing. I can MAYBE understand people wandering off with a common looking vase…but WII letters?!
I’ve never heard of this happening in the UK – I’ve been given them the day after having stayed overnight at the wedding location, but there’s no way I would ever take anything without the bride or groom pretty much handing it to me.
Post # 45
My sister was tempted to do this at my wedding until I expressed to her that they belonged to the venue. I told her that she could have the butterflies and other small items that were scattered around the centerpieces. She walked up to our sweetheart table and grabbed some, sigh… She also took something from the centerpiece at our cousin’s wedding! Yes, people do this… I wish that folks would ALWAYS ask first, but I am guessing that they do not many times. That is a darn shame… I think that people will be too embarassed to admit they took something and give it back. So ridiculous…