(Closed) Do people typically call you "Cute" or "Sexy"?

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  • poll: Are you typically called "Cute" or "Sexy/hot"



  • Post # 17
    1130 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    @aqualuv:  Cute, usually. Or pretty. I’m pretty average looking, I think, so it’s fine by me. The only person who calls me sexy is FH. It would feel weird if someone else did!

    Post # 18
    1245 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I’m the one with the ‘great personality’ :/

    Post # 19
    3208 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    @aqualuv:  I feel the same way! I wish I was more cute, but I get “sexy” more often which I think sucks. I dress modestly like you too.

    I once made a joke about being a good orthodox jew because my Fiance and I partnered very early in life, and the person I was talking to actually believed I was Orthodox for a minute. So yes, I make an effort to dress modestly and still come across as sexy, rather than cute or simply pretty. My guy friends have commented that it’s not only my face and/or body, but also my mannerism, which sucks even more. 

    I’m entering a very male-dominated area of law, and even though I have a lot of guy friends that treat me like one of their “bros,” it does take time for that kind of friendship to develop. I’d like to come across as totally sexless if possible, so this is a distressing point for me.

    Post # 20
    96 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I get cute, pretty or beautiful but not sexy, well not from anyone but Fiance anyway. I used to think it was because i have small boobs but it’s probably more my personality. Im more quiet/awkward than sexy! 

    Post # 21
    39 posts

    Aaaahhh I always get called cute. Everyone I’ve been in a relationship with has come up with the nickname “cutie” and I hate it! I would definitely prefer sexy or beautiful. I’m also 22 as a previous poster said and I just look young. Oh well. Maybe it’ll pass?

    Post # 22
    4027 posts
    Honey bee

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    @aqualuv:  How many people and who is calling you either? Sorry, I find it odd that anyone other than maybe friends (if you asked) and your SO would call you sexy.

    In general, I have been told by parents of students (at the school I work at) that I dress cute. But that is usually referring to my clothing/outfit for the day.


    Post # 23
    2542 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I usually get called beautiful. I don’t get called sexy very often but usually I’m uncomfortable with people telling me that I am….unless it’s Fiance…then I love it.

    Post # 24
    332 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

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    @bmo88: I was wondering the same thing! 

    I used to get “beautiful” and “Oh, you’re so pretty!” and sometimes “cute” but I feel like those comments have really died down in the past year or so.

    Post # 25
    292 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2017

    Put up a poll! 🙂


    I get called cute more than anything. I guess that’s what I get for being 4’11 with a tiny frame. I mean I’m not saying I’m unfortunate to be small, but it definitely makes you more likely to get “cute” comments- even when I go out thinking I look sexy, I still am told cute or pretty. I’m so used to it though, I think it would actually make me uncomfortable if people mainly referred to me as sexy. 

    Post # 26
    3075 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013 - A court...

    Cute, never sexy but sometimes hot. Usually cute, though. I don’t care either way.

    Post # 27
    2142 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    I get cute the most, which I think is a more apt description of me than sexy, haha. But Fiance calls me both

    Post # 28
    2729 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    @aqualuv:  I don’t think anyone’s ever called me cute, and the only person who’s ever called me sexy is my fiance!

    I get told I’m “pretty” fairly frequently though.

    Post # 29
    4953 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2018

    Other than by FH and occasionally by a girl friend, I’m never called any of those things. FH would flip if a guy called me sexy!

    Post # 30
    766 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I usually get some derivation of pretty or beautiful. Occasionally cute. Never sexy. I don’t really consider myself to be sexy though, at least in a traditional sense. I think my nerdy personality overrides that possibility. 

    Post # 31
    3668 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @aqualuv:  Just pretty Undecided I am the ‘good person’ you know but aren’t attracted to 

    thank goodness I have DH to see what a Hot Momma I am 😉 

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