(Closed) Do tell! What was the first time with your SO like?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How was the "first time sex" with your SO?

    It was bad, actually.

    It was ok, a little awkward.

    It was good.

    It was really great.

    It was the best sex I've ever had.

    This sounds bad, but I don't remember!

    We haven't had sex yet.

  • Post # 141
    213 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    It was the worst sex I’ve ever had.

    Just awful.

    He was 28 and I really didn’t expect him to be a virgin. He lasted about 10 seconds. No lie. He didn’t know what to do at all. 

    I don’t like to be in charge so that made it even worse. 

    4.5 years and 2 kids later we are finaly getting there. It’s been a long journey lol


    Post # 142
    92 posts
    Worker bee

    I love this thread, lol. 

    We were 16 and weren’t even together. I lost my virginity to my first love (more like “delusional fantasy relationship” guy). He cheated on me after I moved away and that fell apart.

    Anyway, a week before SO and I had sex for the first time, we went to Bike Week in Laconia, New Husband together with a group of our mutual friends. I was kinda friends with SO but not really; more like acquaintances. My friends thought it’d be fun to wear booty shorts and crop tops with our cleavage hanging out. That was fun for about 5 seconds. The drunk men were yelling to me, so I grabbed SO’s hand and said l, “Pretend you’re my boyfriend.” That didn’t deter the drunk guys. One of them yelled, “Come home with me! You’re gonna break up in a week anyway.” SO was shy, but more and more comfortable as the night progressed. He worked his way up to repeatedly grabbing my ass. I thought he was cute so I liked to tease him a bit.

    Anyway, he called me a week later and asked me to come over, which I thought was weird since we had never hung out alone before. He only had my number bc he was friends with my brother. So, I went to his house and we watched TV for a while. Then we got into the wine, lol. Next thing you know, we were having sex. It was really great. He had already been with like 8 girls or something. He claims he hadn’t had sex for about 6 months though. Not sure I believe that. At any rate,  I was his first relationship. All the other girls were one night stands.


    Post # 143
    445 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    Well we were 15 and both virgins so it was awkward, and short and kind of hurt (would have stopped hurting but then it was over) 

    But we put in a lot of practice after that though ๐Ÿ˜‰

    Post # 144
    91 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Fh and me were supposed to be a NSA type thing and just fell for each other. The first time was  awkward as it was on a roof top in a hot tub and Im not a fan of public sex so I was freaking out about getting caught lol but the sex itself was good and has only got better ๐Ÿ™‚ 

    Post # 145
    73 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    Our first time was the night after our wedding, with him being a virgin and me having not had sex in a couple years at that point. I was on top and I guess a weird angle happened and I ended up hurting him quite badly. It took an hour or so afterwards for him to stop being sore. I felt pretty horrible about that but we’ve gotten a lot better at it since.

    Post # 146
    277 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    It was awful. It was actually his second time ever and it was so bad and awkward that it actually put me off dating him at all. However, we remained friends and a year after, we did it again and it was sooo much better (I guess he got a lot of ahem, practice, throughout the year) Nowadays, its just amazing ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 147
    146 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014 - The Crystal Ballroom at The Rice Hotel

    SO and I were both each others first, we both wanted to bang someone we loved and we were each other first there too ๐Ÿ™‚ 

    The first time was of course a little awkward but more so sweet. We were fooling around and I said lets go for it! It hurt a little, but was fun and everything I hoped sex would be. 

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