(Closed) Do the men in your life leave the toilet seat up or down?

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 2
14682 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

My guy and son put it down but we’ve had guests, mostly long time bachelor’s, who leave it up. Drives me batty, but I never say anything as they are guests in our home but I really want to some times. 

Post # 3
2094 posts
Buzzing bee

Down, but probably only because we totally close the lid to keep the dogs from drinking from the toilet.

I have guests who leave it up though and it annoys me

Post # 4
8279 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I don’t really notice but I think that is because we mostly shut the lid before we flush because it is more hygenic. But I guess I don’t see the annoyance factor, as annoying as it would be for women finding it up I am sure it is equally as annoying for males finding it down. I guess the difference is men are less likely to worry about such a small annoyance since it is rarely mentioned.

Post # 5
1759 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

My SO leaves it up. I thought it would bother me (I guess because it’s a stereotypical “bother” that you see a lot in movies, books, and real life). It really doesn’t bother me at all, though. 

Post # 6
1148 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

hspw714:  ahh I’ve always hated this too! As for my husband,  We have our own separate bathrooms so we can both do what we like with our personal space. Love it.

Post # 7
1554 posts
Bumble bee

My FI leaves it down. We both have our seperate bathrooms, but he even leaves it down no matter where he is. Common courtesy.

Post # 8
105 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

My OH leaves it down!

Post # 9
1385 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2015 - Chapel on Base

My Love is so great at putting the seat down.  He even puts the lid down too.  Which really socks at night when I go in the dark and land on the lid.  I hate that feeling and then having to totally wake up to take a clorox wipe to the lid.  

Post # 10
1868 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

My husband leaves it down. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 11
2566 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

He puts it down, but we also both keep the lid down because of pets in the house.

Post # 12
2120 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’ve never understood why this is a problem ๐Ÿ˜€ Sometimes my DH leaves the seat up, if he leaves it up, I put it down. I don’t care.. it’s an extra tiny hand-movement before I sit down… why is it a problem? ๐Ÿ˜€

Post # 13
547 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

My husband always leaves it down. I hate when guests leave it up. 

Post # 14
1066 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

My SO goes outside. Makes life easier for the both of us as he’s not 100% house trained ๐Ÿ˜€

Post # 15
452 posts
Helper bee

Down! It’s unhygienic to flush with the lid up.

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