(Closed) Do we have to invite them?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
518 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

If you and FI don’t really want to invite these cousins, then don’t. His aunt may make a fuss about it, but just explain that you are having a small wedding. She’s in the wrong if she makes a big deal about it. If you call and ask what she thinks then you set yourself up to be obligated  to invite them if she wants you to.

Post # 4
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@flutterbi: You could use the guise of having a small wedding to invite your cousins without their SO’s. Just make sure they understand and have a hostess at the door to verify only those invited are let in

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