(Closed) Do we have to send an invite to someone who received a STD?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Blushing bee

@Bichon Frise:  as you know, the answer is normally “yes”, bit i think in this case you can forgo the invite. sounds like things would get awkward if this person showed up

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I would normally say you would need to, but I think it’s okay under this circumstance.  It seems it will go unnoticed anyways.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

I wouldn’t bother sending an invitation in this case.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I def wouldnt send an invite it would be strange if he showed up.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Yes, in this case I think you’re in the clear. 

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

agreed with PP-you get a pass on this one. 🙂

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Agree!  The unforgiveable now is! ;o)

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Im having the same dilemma with some extended family members as well! Ugh what a headache. I completely regret doing STD’s

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

i don’t think you need to send an invite in this case 🙂

Post # 13
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Sugar bee

@Bichon Frise:  No it is never ok. 

You have in fact already invited these people.  The formal invite is just the details once you send the STD. 

Good news, is that if the relationship has deteriorated as much, it is unlikely that this person will actually come.

 

Post # 14
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Busy bee

@Bichon Frise:  don’t invite him. you said yourself they’re no longer on speaking terms. that would just be awkward and a waste of a stamp!

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