(Closed) Do we include grandma on the invite?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
2459 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I would address it to both, perhaps you can put a little note in the card for your grandfather which says that yo understand grandma prob wont be able to come but that you wanted to include her on the invite.

Post # 4
4229 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

I’d invite her.  After all she’s still alive, just not “with us”.  I don’t know what etiquette dictates though.  The likelyhood is she wont come I assume, but perhaps you could follow it up with a phonecall to FIs grandfather?  Saying that you understand it may not be practical for her to come, but that you’re thinking of her.

Post # 5
570 posts
Busy bee

@BoiledPNut: invite everyone who’s invited. it would be hurtful to her and grandfather. my grandmother has alz too but she has small windows where she knows who everyone around her is…even though she thinks it’s 1980!

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