(Closed) Do we invite bride's fiance's sister-in-law to bachelorette party?

posted 6 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Invite the bride's fiance's sister-in-law?
    Yes : (6 votes)
    32 %
    No : (13 votes)
    68 %
  • Post # 3
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    No, I wouldn’t invite her unless she & your BFF are close, which it sounds like they’re not. I’m thinking of the equivalent person in my life (husband’s sibling’s spouse) and no, I would not (and did not) invite that person. The bach party is for good friends. I don’t think the Future Sister-In-Law will be offended. 

    Post # 4
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    1150 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2015

    What else will you be doing on the night?

    If there’s only a few of you at the hotel I wouldn’t worry about asking her to stay but if you’re doing dinner/going out or something like that I would at least invite her seeing as she’ll be family soon!

    If she’s quiet and reserved she may decline anyway but at least you’ll have done the right thing 🙂

    Post # 6
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    367 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    I say invite her–if she is’nt comfortable with the events she can always decline…. hopefully if she feels that way she will sct on it. 🙂

    Post # 7
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    1106 posts
    Bumble bee

    I don’t think you need to invite her because honestly, if you don’t even know her name then she can’t be that big in the bride’s life otherwise she would have made sure you knew her name.  It may seem harsh but it also sounds like you already know she may not enjoy herself.  Also, if it’s only going to be the 3 of you anyways, then it might be a little awkward as well.

    Post # 8
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    1540 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    invite her

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