(Closed) do we invite or not invite?

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
4192 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

Just because someone’s related, that doesn’t mean you’re required to send them an invite. My Mom and Aunt are estranged, and there’s no way I’d send her an invite- I’m too pi$$ed at her for how she’s treated my Mom.

What problem would it cause with the family? Would they not come because the uncle isn’t invited/get mad at your Dad? You could always say “we sent them an invite”- blame the post office for it getting lost in the mail. 😉

Post # 4
1636 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@jewel1041:  Would his presence hurt your parents? If so, than no. Adding two people may not be as bad. But this day is about you and by extension your parents who are rejoicing with you on that day. If them being there will hurt them, than I say no. If other family members get upset, you have the right to explain yourself to them. More than likely, he will not come anyway

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