(Closed) Do we really need him?

posted 8 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

We had a friend doing our and it didn’t cost us anything.   We just went online and registered him.  Our state doesn’t require any local registration.  I don’t know what your local laws are but it is something you might chech into.

My FH wrote the whole ceremony, but there are some really good ones online that you can personalize for yourselves.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I can’t speak from experience but the reverend should probably be there IMO.  Otherwise there could be some timing differences I think.  Unless you are having a really simple ceremony but even getting the timing of the unity candle could be off.  Or will you go over that in the pre-meeting?

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I know it was helpful for us to have our pastor at the rehearsal.  We were able to iron our all the specifics of timing as well as who would be where at what point during the ceremony.

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