(Closed) Do you and SO shower together?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper

we don’t shower together every day, but thats just because our schedules are different.  but i would say more often than not we do the same non-sexy showers you described  🙂    i never asked my friends what they do, so i cant compare.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

We don’t live together, but when we are in the same place, sometimes we will shower together. More often than cleaning up, it’s a prelude to other activities.

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Nope. I consider my shower time to be MY shower time. I don’t like to share my showers lol. I need that time to breath in the hot steam and relax in my flowery scented wonderland.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Sometimes, but seriously…I like my lady time. To shave, scrub, lather, rinse, repeat…and think to myself. I also like to pretend that my fiance doesn’t know I am a hairy person

…thank you genetics.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

He always wants to but I’m a brat about it because I like the water to myself and I also like my showers very hot and he just likes them warm.  So when we do shower together we end up bickering about that. But we actually have some quality time together in the shower too. We don’t do it every time but I’d say maybe once a week. When he tries to hog the shower, I reach over him and remove the shower head and then we fight over it, physically lol

I would shower with him more if we had a custom shower and each had our own shower head.  He promised me that when we buy our first home:)

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

We do. Not all the time but most of the time. We hardly get to see eachother so it is an excuse to spend time together. Plus, it is just the norm for us since when we lived in the dorms we would shower together because it was just easier.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Right now we always shower together when we’re together (we’re LDR so we gotta seize every moment we can!), but I have to admit I am wondering if this will continue once we move in together and have differing work schedules, etc.

Water temperature is an issue for us, too–he likes it hotter than I do, so he’s always patting himself on the back for compromising with my preferred temperature. Yes baby, you are amazing, now pass the soap. 😉

Post # 10
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Nope, because our scheduling is so that we both shower at different times. 

Post # 11
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Usually when we shower together, it messes up my routine and doesn’t result in a savings of water usage or anything.  Plus, I like to shower at night and he likes the morning.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@Frog E.: Right now we always shower together when we’re together (we’re LDR so we gotta seize every moment we can!)

Ditto.

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Well we don’t currently live together so we don’t in a every day way, but usually in a sexy way 🙂

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

we do on the weekends – during the week, I shower in the morning, and he showers when he gets home from work (electrician). I loveee having my head scrubbed (my favorite part about haircuts!)

Post # 15
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Buzzing Beekeeper

No. Our shower is small, so it would probably just be awkward and annoying to attempt it.

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@sorrycharlie: Haha, I joked with my SO in the shower yesterday about changing his career path to shampoo boy.. he’s such a good scrubber! Tongue out

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