(Closed) Do you and SO take showers together?

posted 3 years ago in Married Life
Post # 2
1267 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

On vacation with a huge walk in shower- absolutely. I have wonderful memories of Costa Rica ๐Ÿ˜ 

Our shower at home isn’t huge though, but we’ve done it a few times. The new house will have a big shower though! 

Post # 3
5081 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2014

Rarely and only out of convenience if we both need to get ready at the same time. I’ve never found shower sex to be all that enjoyable, so there’s really no draw there for me.

Post # 4
2770 posts
Sugar bee

Once in awhile…yes.

Post # 5
62 posts
Worker bee

We do most days, unless I don’t work and I plan to workout after he leaves for work. But most mornings we shower together and while I’m getting ready for work he packs my lunch. ๐Ÿ˜Š

Post # 6
772 posts
Busy bee

Not every single time, but a lot of the time. It’s fun. ๐Ÿ˜ 

Post # 7
4002 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Our shower isn’t big enough to shower together very often. Usually one of us ends up standing under the water while the other stands near the shower wall and shivers. We are designing our own house plans though, and the new house will have a large shower with multiple shower heads.

Post # 8
4055 posts
Honey bee

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zoraneale :  sometimes, but it almost always leads to sex so if we don’t have time for that then we don’t ๐Ÿ˜‚

Post # 10
782 posts
Busy bee

We never have at home because the showers aren’t big enough but we love doing it in big showers like on vacation. Just thinking about that our last shower sex makes me want to go back & so we can do it again. Yay to hot, steamy shower sex in huge walk in showers!

Post # 11
573 posts
Busy bee

We have a big enough shower but it normally means someone under the water and the other one waiting…haha…so we tend to both be in the bathroom chatting but he might be shaving whilst  I’m in the shower or I’m doing my make up as he is showering. 

Also, oral sex in the shower is quite difficult. Hahaha. I find water goes up my nose and I can’t breathe….so quite a few times we have had sex when we are both out the shower…meaning we have to shower again afterwards. Hahaha. 

Post # 12
287 posts
Helper bee

No, I don’t like showering together. DH is taller than me which means water gets splashed into my eyes and I end up shivering when he is under the shower head, then he gets cold when it’s my turn. We often have baths together though with a glass of wine and chat! 

Post # 13
8 posts
  • Wedding: December 2020

Often!  Either just to clean up after rocking our yard work, before/after fun times, or just to relax together.  I am 13 weeks now and find that nightly shower before bed really helps calm me.

Post # 14
650 posts
Busy bee

Nope. Have done it maybe twice at our house, it’s just really cold haha. 

We stayed at his uncle’s crazy fancy ski resort home for a week last year though – double walk in shower, double shower heads, little jet streams that came out. You bet we did that week! 

Post # 15
657 posts
Busy bee

Yes when we can but for water savings and companionship rather than sexy time. Shower sex isn’t appealing to me. Often it mean awkward slipping issues or my back against a cold shower wall. Brrrr! We’re pretty good about moving in and out of the water throughout our routine so nobody is standing out of the water for too long. 

We save water co-showering. Like I always say, “It takes me longer to shower alone.” I have a tendancy to stare off in the shower and enjoy the warm water when I’m alone but he keeps me on pace when we’re together. We also use morning showers to plan out the day and talk about various things. 

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