(Closed) Do you and SO take showers together?

posted 3 years ago in Married Life
Post # 31
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Busy bee

Nope lol I need my space!

Post # 32
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Blushing bee

God no, I just like to wash in peace!! 

Sharing a bath on the other hand though is a very different story 😁

Post # 33
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2017 - Pearson Convention Centre

Now that  we are married we do shower together before bed

Post # 34
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

Pretty much every day with the exception of period week.

Post # 35
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Pretty much never.  We just have a normal shower so I’m not going to stand there cold and wet next to someone in the nice hot water.  If I had a bigger shower with 2 heads then I would be open to it.  Plus we shower at opposite times (him usually morning and me late evening usually) and we can’t shower together in the morning anyway since someone has to watch the kids.

Post # 36
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

On weekends we shower together. We hardly ever have shower sex tho, it’s more of companionable thing where we talk and joke around.

Post # 37
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Busy bee

Not lately but yes. I think that because my showers are long and more “detailed” I have to kick him out after 5 minutes because our shower is small. But I don’t care for getting frisky in the shower. Water is a poor… lubrication. lol

Post # 38
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Busy bee

Um no I need my space and want to hog all the hot water

Post # 39
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

Not as often as he would like for sure. I just like my shower time, I play a book on the shower speaker, shave, etc… It’s me time haha.

Post # 40
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Buzzing bee

Not currently in a relationship, but when I was we only ever showered together if we both actually needed a shower at the same time. When we would fool around, that’s all it ever was, we’d have to finish the job in bed. I guess I have to find the right size shower and right size person that fits with me to actually have sex in a shower? Standing up? How does this work with out a seat or something?? Or is like hand jobs and not actual penetration?

Post # 41
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

We do sometimes. Never in the mornings because he gets up and leaves an hour before I need to even wake up. Our shower is walk in but isn’t huge so we have to take turns standing under the water. Haven’t figured out a good way to have shower sex yet ha. We much prefer taking baths together in our corner tub and do that more. It is huge but DH complains I like the water too hot.

Post # 42
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - St Peter\'s Church, East Maitland, and Bella Vista, Newcastle

Nope. I hate sharing my shower! If we had a double shower I’d be a lot more open to it I think but without one someone always gets cold!

Post # 43
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Busy bee

I have never heard of couples showering together other than for sex! I would not like to shower with my SO on a daily basis. Scrubbing my dirty self (and him scrubbing his dirty self) next to him does not sound appealing in the slightest. He is also much taller than me, so the logistics of it would be hard. 

Post # 44
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015 - Tuscany Falls Banquet Hall

Sometimes we do. Mostly, when we are both in the mood for more than that. 

Post # 45
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Bumble bee

Nope. We have in the past but DH usually showers at the gym after his workout every day. 

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