(Closed) Do you and SO take showers together?

posted 3 years ago in Married Life
Post # 46
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Busy bee

Every time that we can, it’s harder during the week, because of our schedules, but we make a point to, as much as we can. And every day whenever we are off. Sometimes it leads to sex, but it’s not about that. It’s just what we do. We don’t even think about it anymore. We have a routine and it works. Lots of great conversations have been had in our shower… and even better duets!

Post # 47
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Busy bee

No, no, no. I seriously value my shower time as my ‘alone’ time. I take really, really hot showers that would make SO angry to know how much hot water I’m wasting. So him not being involved is the only way I can keep it a secret, lol! 

We’ve done it a few times-each time resulting in some smexy time-but I wasn’t impressed. One of us is always cold (usually SO while I wash my hair) and water isn’t exactly great lubrication, so it’s more painful than pleasure. 

Also, I know this will probably sound super weird to a good many of you Bee’s, but I’m a very private person when it comes to any kind of nudity. I’ve NEVER used the bathroom in front of SO (it’s a rule we’re created) and I don’t event get naked in front of him while changing. If he’s in the room, he turns around. It’s not because we’re prudes (I mean, we’ve been having sex together for 5 years now-we know what it all looks like, lol) but I put a lot of weight on having that privacy. I don’t want to quicken the pace of SO and I not being fazed by each other being naked. SO we make an effort to be more private with ourselves, so as to keep the sex life interesting.

Post # 48
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Sugar bee

Not very often.  Neither of us likes to be shivering because the other person is hogging all of the hot water spray.  

If we’re on vacation somewhere with a luxury shower (the kind with multiple shower heads) we will, but otherwise, we prefer to shower separaely.

Post # 49
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

More often than not, we shower together. He got me started on it about 10 years ago and it became a normal thing for us. We have our routine down in terms of timing. We call it a “Conservative” Shower because we conserve water.

wink

Post # 50
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

Yup! My SO and I love it. He gets a bit hot n heavy at times ๐Ÿ˜‰ 

Post # 51
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

We don’t really ever shower together for sexy time (though I’d be lying if I said it never ended up heading in that direction) but we like to to connect at the end of a long day. There’s usually a lot of talking, laughing, and it provides each of us with someone to scrub our backs. That said we also have a shower head that has a second handheld so we can both stay warm. 

Post # 52
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

Ha… Yeah, for sure one of the selling points of our house was the awesome master bathroom shower and Tub! wink

 

Post # 53
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Not if we actually need to shower…

Post # 54
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Busy bee

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yourhandinmine :  My showers are secretly super hot too! I think I would freeze if I shared a shower with my SO! :p

Post # 55
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

Very rarely—only if we are both really dirty from hiking or something like that and are in a hurry. Generally, I like to relax in the bath and he takes showers. 

Post # 56
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Busy bee

We are not married yet but we do when we are together (we live in different cities), it’s always at his request. He is really sweet and washes me and my hair and I wash him. I hope we’ll still do that after years of marriage ๐Ÿ˜Š

Post # 57
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2018

We shower all the time together and it almost never includes sex. We just like to spend time together. During the shower, we usually just have conversations about the day, etc. As far as I know, its something we both really enjoy. 

Post # 58
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2019

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zoraneale :  Oh yes, my Dear Fiance and I do when we have a shower big enough… like you, we have pretty wicked memories from our first holiday away together, and our last one where he proposed. Showering together is so damn fun, and it always leads to hot sex afterwards!! Phew!!

Sadly the shower at home is barely big enough to host one person, so we’re not able to shower together at the moment. We’re hanging out for our elopement because the place we are staying at has a hot tub AND a massive shower. I’m so looking forward to it! ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 59
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2017 - Seattle, WA

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jannigirl :  this is exactly how I feel!!!!!

Post # 60
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Helper bee

I love to shower together! him..not so much! he is crazy tall (6’5) and has told me before that showering is overall uncomfortable for him because he is often too tall to stand under the shower head. Sometimes we do it as a treat or if we are on vacation with a hugeeee shower ๐Ÿ™‚ 

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