(Closed) Do you and your fiance have knock down drag out fights?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

We have definitely had our fair share of yelling matches!

We are also very strong headed but the funny thing is they often end by one person saying something stupid or funny (messing up a word when yelling) and the other person cracking up laughing and then we both laugh and everything is ok again!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

we don’t fight a lot but when we do it’s definitely knock down drag out.  both of us are stubborn and hate to admit that the other person might be right.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

not proud of it but yes. we are both very defensive and have short fuses so it makes for lots of nasty fights. and although i’m usually the meaner of the two, he almost always apologizes first.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

No.  I fought constantly with my boyfriend befor my fiance, and it was exhausing and I hated it.  It was always over miscommunications and got way out of hand quickly.  After that, I resolved to never again be with someone with such a short fuse.

When my fiance and I fight, it’s always over something silly and it’s done and resolved in a matter of minutes.  I would never, ever yell or scream at or belittle him, and he is just as respectful of me.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

We don’t really ever yell at each other. Usually when we fight, it’s a little spat over something silly, and we both kind of sulk for a while until someone (usually him!) gives in and makes amends. It’s not the most mature way to fight, lol, but so far it’s worked for us.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

*raising hand*

Yeah, like the other Bees, we rarely fight, but we don’t fight small when we do. We’ve had one fight since engagement last May, but it was a sleep on the couch kind of thing.

The exchange is that we don’t bicker. If one of us annoys the other, someone usually snaps, apologizes, done. Or just lets it go. Just last night Fiance annoyed me very much, I stewed for a minute, then let it go.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Oh boy.   Guilty as charged

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I’ve surfed the couch or extra bed a couple of times in our 6 years. Even when we fight, I won’t make him leave the bed because he has a really bad back.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I will admit, fiance and i fight BAD most of the time when we fight, we are going to start counseling for it in a couple weeks because it is so bad. He is the yeller, I am the pusher…it sucks 🙁

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I have slept in the spare bedroom probably 5 times since we have been living together a little over a year. But in the last few months he has been letting me still sleep in the bed with him even when we fight…we just sleep though-no talking-no cuddling, just pure sleep. I told him that when we are married he cannot just lock the door behind him and push me out like that and that I will give him his space by not talking to him but we need to stay in the same bed. At least this is my theory…so its been ok lately.

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

yeah.. we can drag a fight out!  doors slamming, cars schreeching out of the neighborhood, yelling loud as crap! lol not proud of it.. but yeah, we’ve got some growing to do. hehe  But.. making up is the BEST!

Post # 15
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2010

yup..our biggest fights always happen after he drinks. i hate it!! he has cut down on drinking a lot. i hate who he is when he drinks..

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

We have yelling matches but we never sleep in a different bed/couch – the other person will sulk and apologize so that the mad one will come to bed! LOL

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