Post # 1
Just wondering if you and your FI/DH fight?? Do yall get over it fast, make up, or stay mad till one gives in??
Fiance and I havent had a huge fight yet, not looking fwd to that day! But we argue but its nothing that we stay mad at each other over.
Post # 3
In the words of my Fiance (after my Mom yells at us for bickering): “We’re not fighting, we’re communicating” LOL
Post # 4
Of course we fight, not often but it does happen. But we get over it within minutes, I don’t remember ever staying “mad” at each other for more than an hour. We just learn to drop it and move on, I love that about him.
Post # 5
every couple fights. It is unhealthy not to because that usually means things aren’t getting said and just being allowed to simmer under the skin. That doesn’t mean coudple fight all the time. We don’t fight often but when we do I turn into and uber bitch… I know it. He knows it. We work past that part.
Post # 6
we’ve had huge fights, little fights, medium fights, some we got over in a matter of minutes, some took weeks to repair, make-up and move on. . .fights are part of any relationship. If you never argue (not you specifically) then you’re not being 100% real with FI/SO. Just my opinion. Disagreements are just part of it. It’s how you handle it that counts
Post # 7
We’ve gotten really good at identifying problems before they get to a screaming at each other level. We both get frustrated with the other but we talk about it/bring it up and work it out before it escalates too far. I have emotional breakdowns over stress and things more than we fight
Post # 8
Yeah of course we argue/disagree. We don’t usually “fight” but we have before – it happens. We bicker a lot – like an “old, married couple.” Lol. We compare ourselves to Debra & Raymond off of Everybody Loves Raymond. We have had fights though we haven’t in a while.
Post # 9
@MsJeep23: lol. I like that. I’m keeping it!
Post # 10
We fight often, but nothing serious. We’re both really passionate people and sometimes our discussions get heated and we get pretty dramatic. Our “arguments” don’t last much longer than a few minutes and then we are both laughing at how ridiculous we have been. These things happen over what to have for dinner, what color plates we should buy for the house, where we should walk the dog etc. Some people might call this description unhealthy, but we are very respectful and loving with each other. We stay away from the name calling or putting one another down. That is a big no-no for us. We’re just both really stubborn lol. We’ve only ever had one major fight and even after that we couldn’t stay mad for long. We always work our problems out quickly and we have a rule to never go to bed angry 🙂
Post # 11
Darling Husband and I have been together since Nov. ’07 and I can honestly say that we have never had a major fight. We’ve learned to talk and bring up things that are bothering us long before they ever get to the stage that would cause a fight. It’s when people let things simmer and get bigger that big fights tend to happen – so we just never let things reach that point. Yes – we have minor disagreements from time to time but nothing that isn’t completely over and forgotten in a matter of minutes.
Post # 12
We bicker ever now and then and get over it pretty quickly. We have had a couple actual fights but nothing major or that last longer than like an hour before we talked it all out. We are firm believers that no matter how wonderful your relationship is, you have to fight every now and then. Because no ones relationship is perfect.
Post # 13
@Mrs Hedgehog: Hehe. Works for us!
Post # 14
@MsJeep23: Haha thats funny!
What I mean by fighting (well for us) we dont stand there and have a yelling match, basically who can drop the most F bombs, who can yell loudest..and so on and so on. We sit down and talk it over. Thats what i ment 😉
Post # 15
Yes, and then we’re both stubborn assholes who refuse to be the first one to “cave” so when we do have a real fight, they go on a lot longer than really necessary. We settle squabbles pretty easily, but bigger arguments do not bring out the best in us, LOL.
Post # 16
This is why I love my Fiance, we get along super well. If we have a disagreement or are not happy with eachother we are very good at letting the other know without hurting the others feelings. We get along very well, it makes me super happy and excited for our life together. We both had crazy exs that were crabby pattys, so I think we learned a lot from them!