(Closed) Do you and your FI/DH fight??

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

In the words of my Fiance (after my Mom yells at us for bickering): “We’re not fighting, we’re communicating” LOL

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Of course we fight, not often but it does happen.  But we get over it within minutes, I don’t remember ever staying “mad” at each other for more than an hour.  We just learn to drop it and move on, I love that about him. 

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

every couple fights. It is unhealthy not to because that usually means things aren’t getting said and just being allowed to simmer under the skin. That doesn’t mean coudple fight all the time. We don’t fight often but when we do I turn into and uber bitch… I know it. He knows it. We work past that part.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

we’ve had huge fights, little fights, medium fights, some we got over in a matter of minutes, some took weeks to repair, make-up and move on. . .fights are part of any relationship. If you never argue (not you specifically) then you’re not being 100% real with FI/SO. Just my opinion. Disagreements are just part of it. It’s how you handle it that counts

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

We’ve gotten really good at identifying problems before they get to a screaming at each other level. We both get frustrated with the other but we talk about it/bring it up and work it out before it escalates too far. I have emotional breakdowns over stress and things more than we fight

Post # 8
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Yeah of course we argue/disagree. We don’t usually “fight” but we have before – it happens. We bicker a lot – like an “old, married couple.” Lol. We compare ourselves to Debra & Raymond off of Everybody Loves Raymond. We have had fights though we haven’t in a while.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

We fight often, but nothing serious. We’re both really passionate people and sometimes our discussions get heated and we get pretty dramatic. Our “arguments” don’t last much longer than a few minutes and then we are both laughing at how ridiculous we have been. These things happen over what to have for dinner, what color plates we should buy for the house, where we should walk the dog etc. Some people might call this description unhealthy, but we are very respectful and loving with each other. We stay away from the name calling or putting one another down. That is a big no-no for us. We’re just both really stubborn lol. We’ve only ever had one major fight and even after that we couldn’t stay mad for long. We always work our problems out quickly and we have a rule to never go to bed angry 🙂

Post # 11
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Darling Husband and I have been together since Nov. ’07 and I can honestly say that we have never had a major fight.  We’ve learned to talk and bring up things that are bothering us long before they ever get to the stage that would cause a fight.  It’s when people let things simmer and get bigger that big fights tend to happen – so we just never let things reach that point.  Yes – we have minor disagreements from time to time but nothing that isn’t completely over and forgotten in a matter of minutes.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

We bicker ever now and then and get over it pretty quickly. We have had a couple actual fights but nothing major or that last longer than like an hour before we talked it all out. We are firm believers that no matter how wonderful your relationship is, you have to fight every now and then. Because no ones relationship is perfect.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Yes, and then we’re both stubborn assholes who refuse to be the first one to “cave” so when we do have a real fight, they go on a lot longer than really necessary. We settle squabbles pretty easily, but bigger arguments do not bring out the best in us, LOL.

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

This is why I love my Fiance, we get along super well.  If we have a disagreement or are not happy with eachother we are very good at letting the other know without hurting the others feelings.  We get along very well, it makes me super happy and excited for our life together.  We both had crazy exs that were crabby pattys, so I think we learned a lot from them! 

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