(Closed) Do you and your husband/FI have rules?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Nope, we don’t have any rules!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

haha i think that is cute!  but no, we don’t have any rules.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

NO TV IN THE BEDROOM and NO BOUNDARIES IN THE BEDROOM..

The bedroom is a safe place for any and all conversation and physical emotions. There can be no communication boundaries of any kind.  No joke it helps a ton. More in sync with one another.  If we are uncomfortable with anything its all let out once in the bedroom, no boudaries, no off limits. 

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Are we talking sex rules only?  We don’t have a TV in the bedroom cause we think it reduces the intimacy of the area.. But I guess that’s it.

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I had to establish a “no iphones in the bedroom” rule when Fiance started climbing into bed with it (especially where he plays video games for hours each night).

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

No TV in the bedroom – ever.

No clothes in bed (same exceptions as you; oh, and socks don’t count, as my feet are always freezing).

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2011

no rules.  

 

 

@Neva: as to your second rule…doesn’t that sort of defeat the purpose of the act itself?  by no means am i judging you.  what people do behind closed doors is totally their business.  but the first thought that came to mind is when my SO is away on long business trips is the time I would actually need to do it myself and according to your rules that’s a no no.  if he’s there on the other hand, i would just rather have him.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

We really don’t have rules. We don’t have a TV in the bedroom, because it would reduce the amount of decent sleep we feel we would get.  And I’m not allowed to wear socks to bed (even though my feet are always freezing!) because my husband doesn’t like the way they feel against his feet, lol.  So when my feet are cold, I get to put them between his legs to warm them up.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

@OP doesn’t rule #2 defeat the actual purpose of it?

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

We have no sex rules. Come to think of it, we have no bedroom-related rules at all. Hmm.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

Hmm.. No tv in the bedroom (that’s my rule, otherwise I’m not sure he’d ever go into the living room at all)

Ask/Warn before you do something surprising lol..

No stealing the covers and no pushing me off the bed!! He’ll literally PUSH me OFF the bed. As in; I’m sleeping soundly…then I’m on the floor.

My rules are rarely enforced though, aside from the tv.

 

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

No rules. I dont know what we would do w/o a tv in our bedroom!

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

no street clothes in the bed! we live in nyc so conceivable the jeans worn on the dirty filthy subway then get in my nice clean sheets… GUHH! 

but, i like some of these other ones, regarding communication and not just cleanliness 😉

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

@Neva – that’s absolutely your rules and no one should judge you but I absolutely think self-pleasuring is 100% natural and healthy

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