(Closed) Do you and your SO agree about how many babies??

posted 6 years ago in Babies
  • poll: Do you and your SO agree about how many babies to try for??
    We agree! : (138 votes)
    76 %
    We disagree! : (43 votes)
    24 %
  • Post # 3
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    3000 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    We kinda agree… haha he wants 2-3 and I want 3-4 so we will most likely try for 3 ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 5
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Well, we agree in the number (2-3), but we disagree on how we will get there. He wants only the first to be biological, anything after that he wants to adopt. 

    Post # 6
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    1004 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Well… we are almost on the same page. I really only want one or two, max. I come from a large family, with 5 children, and that is not for me.

    Fiance wants 2-3. We will see (twins run in BOTH of our families. My mother is a twin). If we have more than one, we will definitely have to sell our house, or do some major renovations.

    We won’t be having kids for 3-5 years though!

    Post # 7
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    3830 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    We want 3 and would like to start trying at 27-28. 

    Not agreeing on kids was a deal breaker for me. I wouldn’t date a guy who didnt want children or vice versa. 

    Post # 8
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    6009 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

    We have two right now, and we’re both definitely set on having a third.  I think we’ll wait and see after that; I might want to have a fourth, and I think my husband might be up for that, but we’ll have to see how 3 goes first.  ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 9
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    5670 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    We know we want children so I figured that’s a start. He wants 4 and I want 2. We are expecting a girl so if we have a boy next then he knows we are probably done but he’s always wanted a large family. But then again if his business really flourishes then maybe I will consider 4. I am more concerned about nor being able to provide for 4 kids and still taking them on vacation, paying for sports, etc. as I would if we only had 2 kids.

    Post # 12
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    504 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    We both want 3 children, but not for a while.

    Post # 13
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    1004 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @Monana:  I would not ming adopting all children we have. My Fiance wants the same: 1st one biological, then we can talk about adopting. I’m not sure how I feel about it though… like, would the adopted kids somehow feel less a part of the family if you made sure you had one biological first-born?

    Post # 14
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    3830 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @Sea_bass:  Ya the number can ALWAYS change after you actually start having them!!!

    Post # 16
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    4582 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    We don’t fully agree. I want 2. He wants 3+. I’ve told him maybe if we’re doing well financially we could eventually adopt.

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